Day 28 of 28
New Men
The Goal: Becoming Truly Human
Scripture Readings
Today's Scripture
2 Corinthians 5:17 — "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come."
1 John 3:2 — "Beloved, we are God's children now, and what we will be has not yet appeared; but we know that when he appears we shall be like him, because we shall see him as he is."
Revelation 21:5 — "And he who was seated on the throne said, 'Behold, I am making all things new.'"
The Big Idea
Here is the last surprise of Mere Christianity: surrendering to Christ does not erase you — it is the only thing that will ever make you fully you. Sin photocopies people; holiness makes originals. The goal of the whole Christian story is not religious people but new people, truly human at last. And you become that new self not by hunting for it, but by looking at Jesus.
Reflection
The fear that keeps us half-surrendered
Lewis ends his book by facing our deepest fear about God head-on. We will give Christ our Sunday mornings, our manners, even our money — but not the steering wheel. Because somewhere deep down we suspect that if we hand over everything, we will disappear. God will sand off whatever makes us interesting and turn out one more polite, beige, religious clone.
Lewis answers with the most paradoxical claim in the book:
"The more we get what we now call 'ourselves' out of the way and let Him take us over, the more truly ourselves we become... It is when I turn to Christ, when I give myself up to His Personality, that I first begin to have a real personality of my own." — C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity
How can losing yourself give you a self? Think of an instrument joining an orchestra. A violin playing alone in a bedroom can do only so much. Handed over to a great composer's symphony, surrounded by ninety other instruments, it does not become less of a violin — it finally sounds like everything a violin was built to be. Submission to the music is not the death of the instrument. It is the point of it.
Jesus stated the law of the universe behind this in Matthew 10:39 — "Whoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it." And he was equally clear about which side of the exchange he is on: John 10:10 — "I came that they may have life and have it abundantly." Abundant life. Not reduced life, supervised life, or grayscale life. More life than you currently know what to do with.
Sin makes copies; holiness makes originals
But is it true? Look at the evidence, Lewis says. Examine what sin actually does to personality:
"How monotonously alike all the great tyrants and conquerors have been: how gloriously different are the saints." — C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity
He is right, and you can test it. Every tyrant in history tells the same story: grab power, crush rivals, demand worship, grow paranoid, fall. You could swap their biographies and barely notice. Addiction works the same way on ordinary people — every form of slavery to self shrinks a person toward the same predictable script. Pride, envy, and greed are not creative forces. They are photocopiers.
Now line up the saints — the church's word for people in whom God's remaking work has gone visibly deep. Francis of Assisi preaching to birds, Augustine the restless African professor, Corrie ten Boom hiding Jews behind a false wall, Spurgeon booming with jokes, Amy Carmichael rescuing children in India. No two remotely alike. The closer people get to Christ, the more unrepeatable they become — like colors that grow more distinct, not less, as the light gets brighter.
Paul explains why. Ephesians 2:10 — "For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them." The Greek word behind "workmanship" is poiema — the root of our word poem. You are not a unit rolling off an assembly line. You are a handcrafted work, with works prepared specifically for you to walk in. Irenaeus, one of the church's earliest teachers, saw all the way to the bottom of this:
"The glory of God is a living man; and the life of man consists in beholding God." — Irenaeus, Against Heresies
God is not glorified by flattening you. A human being fully alive — that is his glory. And the aliveness comes, Irenaeus says, from beholding him.
Stop hunting for yourself
Here our culture and Lewis part ways completely. The modern recipe for identity is: look inside, find your true self, express it, defend it. Whole industries — the feeds you scroll, the brands you wear, the captions you agonize over — run on the promise that you can construct yourself. Lewis says the project is doomed, not because the longing is wrong, but because the method is backwards:
"Your real, new self (which is Christ's and also yours, and yours just because it is His) will not come as long as you are looking for it. It will come when you are looking for Him." — C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity
Identity is like happiness: aim at it directly and it slips through your fingers. Aim at Christ and it arrives as a by-product. Augustine learned this the long way — years of chasing pleasure, status, and philosophy, looking everywhere for the thing that would make him him. He wrote his famous confession to God afterward:
"Late have I loved you, O Beauty ever ancient, ever new, late have I loved you! You were within me, but I was outside, and it was there that I searched for you." — Augustine, Confessions
Searching outside for what was waiting all along — that is the autobiography of the human race. Paul gives the strange Christian alternative in Colossians 3:3-4 — "For you have died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God. When Christ who is your life appears, then you also will appear with him in glory." Your truest self is not buried in your feelings, waiting to be excavated. It is hidden with Christ in God — kept safe, like an inheritance with your name on it, to be revealed when he is. So 1 John 3:2 can say, without embarrassment, "what we will be has not yet appeared; but we know that when he appears we shall be like him, because we shall see him as he is." Beholding will finish what beholding began.
In the meantime, Lewis says, our problem is not that we want too much from life. It is that we settle for so little:
"We are half-hearted creatures, fooling about with drink and sex and ambition when infinite joy is offered us, like an ignorant child who wants to go on making mud pies in a slum because he cannot imagine what is meant by the offer of a holiday at the sea. We are far too easily pleased." — C.S. Lewis, The Weight of Glory
Mud pies, when the sea is on offer. That is every identity we build for ourselves, compared with the self God is building for us.
Look for Christ
So the book ends where the gospel ends — with an exchange. Lewis's final charge:
"Keep back nothing. Nothing that you have not given away will be really yours. Nothing in you that has not died will ever be raised from the dead." — C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity
That sounds costly because it is. But remember who asks it. This is the begotten Son who became tin to bring tin soldiers to life, the grain of wheat who fell into the earth, the Maker who kept nothing back — not glory, not comfort, not his life — to make you his. He is not bargaining for your surrender from a safe throne. He is asking from a cross, with open hands. Romans 8:29 says the Father's plan from eternity was for you "to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order that he might be the firstborn among many brothers." Conformed to Christ — and, mysteriously, more yourself than you have ever been. Many brothers and sisters — and no two alike.
This is what 2 Corinthians 5:17 announces over everyone who is in Christ: "he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come." A new creation — not the old self with a fresh coat of paint, but the first installment of God's renovation of everything. John Newton, the slave-trader whom grace turned into a pastor, gave the new creation its theme song, and the church has not stopped singing it for two and a half centuries:
"Amazing grace! how sweet the sound, that saved a wretch like me! I once was lost, but now am found, was blind, but now I see." — John Newton, Amazing Grace
Lost, found. Blind, seeing. Old, new. And the work will not stop with individuals. The last word of today — nearly the last word of the Bible — widens to the whole horizon: Revelation 21:5 — "And he who was seated on the throne said, 'Behold, I am making all things new.'" All things. Every grave emptied, every tear answered, every tin soldier alive, every poem finished.
Twenty-eight days ago this plan began with a quarrel — two people on a hallway appealing to a standard of fair play neither of them invented. Lewis followed that small clue all the way here: through the moral law to the Lawgiver, through our failure to the Invasion, through the dying and rising of God to a world made new. The argument is over. What remains is the closing sentence of the whole book, which is not an argument at all but a promise:
"Look for yourself, and you will find in the long run only hatred, loneliness, despair, rage, ruin, and decay. But look for Christ and you will find Him, and with Him everything else thrown in." — C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity
Going Deeper
End the plan with a trade. Write two short lists. First: three things you have been "looking for yourself" in lately — image, achievement, approval, anything. Second: one concrete way you will look for Christ this week instead — a fixed time of prayer, a book of the Bible to start, a service to someone that costs you something. Then say Lewis's last line back to God as a prayer: "I will look for Christ — and trust you for everything else thrown in." That single trade, repeated daily for a lifetime, is how new men and women are made.
Key Quotes
“The more we get what we now call 'ourselves' out of the way and let Him take us over, the more truly ourselves we become... It is when I turn to Christ, when I give myself up to His Personality, that I first begin to have a real personality of my own.”
“How monotonously alike all the great tyrants and conquerors have been: how gloriously different are the saints.”
“Your real, new self (which is Christ's and also yours, and yours just because it is His) will not come as long as you are looking for it. It will come when you are looking for Him.”
“Look for yourself, and you will find in the long run only hatred, loneliness, despair, rage, ruin, and decay. But look for Christ and you will find Him, and with Him everything else thrown in.”
“Keep back nothing. Nothing that you have not given away will be really yours. Nothing in you that has not died will ever be raised from the dead.”
“We are half-hearted creatures, fooling about with drink and sex and ambition when infinite joy is offered us, like an ignorant child who wants to go on making mud pies in a slum because he cannot imagine what is meant by the offer of a holiday at the sea. We are far too easily pleased.”
“The glory of God is a living man; and the life of man consists in beholding God.”
“Late have I loved you, O Beauty ever ancient, ever new, late have I loved you! You were within me, but I was outside, and it was there that I searched for you.”
“Amazing grace! how sweet the sound, that saved a wretch like me! I once was lost, but now am found, was blind, but now I see.”
Prayer Focus
Thank God for these 28 days — for the moral law that first pointed you toward him, for the Son who became man, and for the new self he is making in you. Tell Jesus plainly that you want him more than you want a better version of yourself, and ask him to keep that order straight in you for the rest of your life.
Meditation
Read 1 John 3:2 again: 'what we will be has not yet appeared.' Picture the most Christlike person you know. What one quality of theirs do you suspect is a preview of the finished you?
Question for Discussion
Lewis claims sin makes people boring and alike, while holiness produces the most distinctive personalities. Do the people around you see Christianity as a path to becoming more fully yourself, or as a system that erases individuality? What would have to change in our lives for them to see the first?